Sorry, I have been extremely busy the last couple of days (months?). I still haven't had much time to ponder the problem, but one thought comes to mind, at what frequencies are you running this and what is the load cell, and its supporting electronics, frequency response. You mention that the amplitude decreases as the frequency increases, but that you increase the gain of the driver amplifier. It (the system) is most likely non-linear in its response, so how much you increase the gain will vary. The nonlinearity of the response is one of the reasons there is so much published about control systems, PID controllers, etc.
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