Right-click on the terminal of your control and select Create>>Property node.
Click where it says Visible (the list of properties) and select "Enabled State".
Right click on it and select "change to write". When you wire 0 into it it'll be enabled, 1 disabled and 2 disabled and grayed (which is the one you want). Just remeber to wire 0 when you're finished.
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