Connecting to a remote database is exactly the same as connecting to a local one - you do it either through the ODBC Administrator (in the Control Panels) or by creating a Data Link file (*.udl).
I prefer creating UDL files by going to the Tools>>Create Data Link dialog. In the Provider tab, select the Jet 4.0 driver. In the Connection tab, select the browse button and you can then go through the My Network Places, you can connect to your remote database file (*.mdb). When you return to the Connection tab, you can then Test Connection to make sure it works. Save the UDL file and then use that path for the connection in the DBTools Open Connection VI. Be sure to always check the error coming out of the Open Connection subVI so that you catch problems (networ
k problems, remote computer not on, etc) before you try to read/write data.