Hi John,
I think you want to have a new connector where you can wire to.
Open the VI, create the control or indicator on the front panel and then make a right click on the icon. Choose show connector pane. Your mouse cursor changes to the wire cursor. Click in the pane on a free connector and then click on the new control/indicator. This way the control/indicator is assoicated with the connector on the connector pane. Keep the rule controls left indicators right side. If there is no more connector left you can choose a new pane.
Normally we use only a limited set of panes for all subVIs to avoid benches in the wires. Most we use the pane with 4 connectors left and 4 connectors right.
Waldemar
Using 7.1.1, 8.5.1, 8.6.1, 2009 on XP and RT
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