Just to complete my answer, to change the tab background color you must use
EasyTab_SetTabAttribute (panel, control, eventDataX,
ATTR_EASY_TAB_LABEL_BG_COLOR, VAL_GRAY);
use one of the eventDataX parameters to address the correct tab and change the color constant (or use a different color by menas of MakeColor () function or writing directly RGB values) accordint to your needs.