Hi,
The graphs will never be identical simply because they are different. If you would like to add an intensity slider, which I believe to mean the "Ramp" part of the Intensity Control for LabVIEW, cannot be added as part of the 3D-Graph control. The best way to do this may be to add an image that is created with a gradient to represent this ramp. Another idea is to use an additional 3D-Graph control and assign it values to make it emulate this behavior.