Since, you have tried it on a cross-over cable, I would look at your network security settings. Look at these settings by going to FieldPoint Explorer >>Edit this comm resource>> Network Security. It sounds like this problem because you can set up options for certain computer for Read Only access, etc. Also, check to see if the device is locked (right mouse click in Remote System Explorer).
Also, make sure that you have the LVRT 6.0.3 image running on the FP-2000. Go to Remote Systme Explorer, right mouse click and choose Install/Upgrade Software.
Joji