Internally, the 9914 asynchronously decodes register accesses. All of the setup and hold times in the datasheet are referenced to whichever of CE*/WE*/DBIN occurs first or last, respectively.
As long as you meet all the setup and hold requirements you can tie WE* and DBIN together.
Do you plan on using DMA in this application? If so you need to consider the ACCGR* signal also.