Hey, I'll take Question 2 for 10,000 yen.
> Since I can't think of a reason, maybe you can tell
> me why you want the device to stay in remote mode
> when you are not actively talking to it?
If the device is an ATM (of the banking variety) and the connection to the system controller goes down, you don't want local mode to take over and operate the cash dispensing mechanism. You might not mind too much that persons nearby might be able to turn off power to the device, and you might have already accounted for the possibility of power tools being used in order to steal the entire device, but still you don't want to make it easy for local operations to take over.
Although I'm not the original poster, I agree with your suggestion to manually ground
the REN line when desired. Such a design would make it obvious that this effect was intended, regardless of which driver is correct.