OK Niel,
Trying again. You have multicolumn list box control filled with lines of configuration data.
If you selected(one click) one of the lines, this line highlighted. Your control terminal shows some number. This number will show current active line. No property node needed for it, just I32 wire.
Then, if you want to highlight any other line of the control programmatically, just create property node, select VALUE property, make it as Write and wire desired number to VALUE property. This is enough.
BTW, if it's not working wire selection color property as well. Don't ask me why.
If it's not so, it means that I don't understand a question. Post a vi itself for exact explanation of what are you asking about.
My sample attached.
Regards.
Sergey