How I got this to work:
The data collection machine sends the data to the database using a C# dll using invoke node on client machine setup as a vi server. It's a work around but allows the database/web server to serve up results and trend data through a web interface. The vi reads the data off the cFP1808 and sends the data to SQL Server though the network. I think of this as a simplified "data pump" design and this leaves the Windows 2003 server box to do it's thing without incurring the performance hit of trying to be a LabVIEW/database/web server all at once.