Hello,
I found an interesting post on a previous thread. This customer created code that tries to auto-connect to the server. It's almost like it constantly polls to see if there is a live connection, in order to get around the problem of not getting the disconnect event.
Take a look at the following thread: http://forums.ni.com/ni/board/message?board.id=180&message.id=12436&requireLogin=False
Hope that helps.
Wendy L
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