The icd file is installed when you install IMAQ.
I don't know any specifics about your camera, so I will have to stick with general advice.
My suggestion would be to set up the camera in MAX the way you want it and make sure it works. You should be able to select the same settings from your program and have the same results. The order you set the options may make a difference. Once you have one setup working, try another.
It sounds like you are getting close to a solution.
Bruce
Bruce Ammons
Ammons Engineering